Ages 3 to 5
For parentsAt this age the lessons come from you. Each one is a short conversation, with questions to ask and something to try together.
What they're ready to learn
Life lessons for 3–5
My body belongs to mePreschoolers can learn the real names for every body part, that private parts are private, and that there are no secrets about bodies, while surprises are fine. Children who know they can tell any of several trusted grown-ups, and who know they'll never be in trouble for it, are better placed to speak up. Keeping them safe stays the adults' job.11 sourcesDraft · DraftingAsk first, stop means stopPreschoolers learn that everyone is in charge of their own body. That means asking before a hug or rough play, stopping the moment a friend says stop, and noticing how the other person feels. They learn it fastest when the grown-ups around them do the same.10 sourcesDraft · DraftingTell a grown-up when someone's hurtPreschoolers are starting to notice and care when someone is hurt or sad. This lesson helps them turn that care into one simple action: if someone is hurt or about to be hurt, go and tell a grown-up. That's telling, not tattling.11 sourcesDraft · Drafting
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